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This week’s Fed decision to try to stimulate the economy confirmed what many already suspected: economic conditions are not good.  Official statistics show that the rate of growth on the economy os slowing, and analysts are concerned about a long-term. Japan-style meltdown.

Despite a 10% rise in the Dow, unemployment remains stubbornly high.  Nevada (14.2%), Michigan (13.2%), and California (12.3%) together represent over 3 million unemployed Americans.  Some 128 cities have unemployment rates over 10%, and 12 have rates over 15%– ten of these are in California.

In the short term, analysts expect this to translate into an advantage for the GOP in the fall elections.  Despite the GOP getting us into this mess, the failure of the Dems to get us out has hurt incumbents.  And a desire for change means “the other guy” wins.

WSJ‘s Peggy Noonan has a darker assessment:

[D]o our political leaders have any sense of what people are feeling deep down? They don’t act as if they do…  In Washington they don’t seem to be looking around and thinking, Hmmm, this nation is in trouble, it needs help. They’re thinking something else…  They don’t seem to know or have a sense of the mood of the country.  And so they make their moves, manipulate this issue and that, and keep things at a high boil. And this at a time when people are already in about as much hot water as they can take.”

She warns that we’re in danger of “boiling over.”  And she’s right.

Rural America is outraged that “their” administration betrayed their values in favor of corporations, then got defeated by a bunch of liberals.  Urban America is outraged that after eight years of corporate conservatism, “their” administration gave them not change, but more of the same. In short, Washington has alienated almost everyone outside the beltway.  Their biggest fear should be that we figure out it wasn’t rural conservatives or urban liberals who did this to us– it was our elected officials of both parties who looted the treasury while they had us fighting each other.

Americans Left and Right are disgusted with the state of our national government.  States from Arizona to California are passing legislation that defies federal law.  And even some of our largest states have become dysfunctional– California can’t even pass a budget.

If we are to survive as a nation, we need change– and not just some political slogan by a guy the corporations have already bought and paid for.  We need to stop looking for a one-size-fits-all solution to impose on our rivals.  The Federal government isn’t going to fix us.

Let’s recognize that we have regional differences.  What works in Los Angeles won’t work in rural Arkansas or Utah– and may not work in San Francisco, either.

Let’s recognize that power is the problem: so long as we’re fighting over who has it, we can’t get anything done.  The federal government is too big and too intrusive.

I’m not suggesting that we eliminate medicare, social security, or the EPA, but I am suggesting that the assumption that everything can be and should be regulated by, fixed by, and funded by our central government deserves another, more critical look.  Are we willing to sacrifice our liberty for some temporary (and elusive) security?  I hope not.  Are we willing to alienate our neighbors by forcing our religious views on them, be they for or against abortion, school prayer, same-sex marriage, or recreational drug and alcohol use?  I hope not.  Have we become so selfish that we imagine success means we have to have everything our own way, no matter who it angers?  I hope not.

As a nation, we are on the verge of losing our cohesiveness.  We need to find our common ground again– and that common ground is that we believe in the self-evident rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.  We are Americans.  We have always overcome adversity.  And we have, since our inception, looked to our neighbors in our communities (not some distant power center) for our strength and support.

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Tens of thousands of Iraqis have come to the U.S. as refugees. Over 20,000 had been admitted to the U.S. by the end of January 2009 (the most current figures available). They arrive in a strange land not knowing the culture or customs, where to find anything, and usually without furniture or much in the way of clothing.  Often, these former desert dwellers are sent to live in frigid northeastern states, so even the climate is foreign to them.

My sister-in-law got involved in helping Iraqi refugees get settled in Manchester, NH.  As this video points out, there are plenty of other communities with refugees in need.

How does it “change the world” to help a refugee?

  • You make a new friend from a different culture, changing each others’ attitude and expectations about the other.
  • Your friends will hear you talk about it, and this will help to change their perceptions about it too.
  • Friendship is a preferable alternative to disinterest– or dislike.
  • When you look into the eyes of another human being, you realize their humanity. It’s harder to accept war when you’ve recognized the people on the other side as human.

My sister-in-law’s work has changed her– and when she invited an Iraqi widow and her young son to Thanksgiving dinner, the first time these folks had experienced the November custom, it affected not only the woman and her son, but our entire family.

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This is the third in a series written by D. J. Mitchell and Susan Cain.

Susan has over 100 Muslim and Arab friends on Facebook, from whom she is learning about their religion, their culture, and what it is like to be an average citizen in the countries in which they live.

One evening on Facebook, Susan saw the above video posted by Kareem Wagdi, one of her newer Arab friends.  The video shows quotations, followed by photos of the Hollywood stars to whom the quotes are attributed. Although the text was written in Arabic, Susan could tell by Kareem’s comments in English that he was quite disgusted with its message. She told Kareem that although she was sure there were negative feelings in Hollywood, that there were others who had no ill feelings about Arabs and Muslims, and that many stars supported Arab causes. She also told him that (as is true with most Americans) she could not understand the Arabic that was written in this video.

Kareem responded that, according to the Arabic captions, some of the celebrities in the video made positive comments about Arabs, including Mel Gibson, Anthony Hopkins, George Clooney, Angelina Jolie, Al Pacino, Dustin Hoffman, Ralph Fiennes, and Sandra Bullock. But there were some very negative comments from others. We have located translations of the negative comments the video attributes to the following people:

Tom Cruise: “The Arabs are the source of terrorism because they haven’t left anyone that they haven’t attacked and I hope that Israel annihilates Hizballah.”

A representative of Mr. Cruise confirms that he never said that, and added, “Thanks for coming to us – what I just found on line is ridiculous.”

Richard Gere: “The Arabs are a parasite on the world and it’s necessary to exterminate them all.”

Gere is the founder of the humanitiarian Gere Foundation. In 2005, after several trips to Palestine in support of peace, Gere did a television spot on behalf of a Jewish peace group, encouraging Palestinians to vote.

Harrison Ford: “The Arabs are grotesque creatures and are less than animals and we the Jews are the natives of this world, so there’s no comparison.”

Here is what Ford has actually said, which was also carried on the English-language website Islam Online:

“I’m very disturbed about the direction American foreign policy is going. I think something needs to be done to help alleviate the conditions which have created a disenfranchised and angry faction in the Middle East. I don’t think military intervention is the correct solution. I regret what we as a country have done so far.”

It’s clear that the video seriously misrepresents the views of these Hollywood celebrities, presumably for the purpose of showing how bigoted and racist we Americans are. And it would be easy to dismiss such obvious propaganda– but we can’t afford to. The YouTube video above has been viewed almost 400,000 times in two years. That’s over 500 views per day, every day, on this one video.

The website from which we obtained translations indicates that this propaganda has been circulating in email format since at least 2006. And a search of, for example, “Harrison Ford Arab quotes” will turn up plenty of discussion in English about the fictional quotes.

In a post-modern world of electronic communication, how is it possible that such untruthful propaganda would be believed by Arabs throughout the world? And how are we so unaware of it? First, all of us want to believe that what we hear and see through the independent sources on the internet is true. We want to trust it as a reliable non-commercial source of information. It isn’t. There are many good sources of information, and also many sources that are not reliable. Only through experience do we begin to learn the difference.

Second, and perhaps more importantly, is the language barrier. Arabic is the common language of the Islamic world, yet few Americans speak it. College enrollment in the study of Arabic language was only 1.5% of all college language study in 2006, up from just 0.7% in 2002. With no common language, we have no means to fact check what is being said on either side.

Taking advantage of these limitations, extremists use YouTube and other electronic media to spread the seeds of hate every day. Susan’s friend Kareem had no reason not to believe them. And until Kareem and Susan met on FaceBook, we didn’t know this was happening.

The internet in general, and YouTube in particular, is like an untended garden: truth can be found alongside misinformation. We must take care to nurture truth, to question our sources, or the weeds that sprout from the seeds of hatred will overpower it.

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It takes more commitment to love justice than to hate it.  Those who promote justice must be willing to die.  Those who would trample justice need only be willing to kill.

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Written by Susan Cain.

Two months before last year’s 9-11 anniversary, I made two amazing new young Egyptian friends. I thought it would be a nice tribute to our friendship if I wrote a poem about what their friendship meant to me. 9/11 must have been in the back of my mind because what I began writing was not about personal friendship. It was about America’s guilt in lumping all Muslims into the terrorist category and the rage and hate that attitude caused. When I finished writing that poem, I realized that I had discovered “middle ground” on Facebook with the Arab world. I understood their feelings as well as my own. I still have a lot of unanswered questions, but now they are more about the details & less about the “why’s and where’s”.

I hope that my poem suggests how much we could achieve if we all reached for the middle ground. My close Egyptian friends have dubbed me”Queen Susan, ruler of the Monkey Planet”. Queen Susan now offers her poem for you to read:


A Dialogue Between Lady Liberty & Mother Egypt a Few Years After 9/11

In one land, the morning sun rises. The evening moon graces the sky in the other.
The Lady of Liberty opens her eyes. The eyes begin closing of the Majestic Ageless Mother.

Two worlds so far apart, separated for miles by sometimes raging,ill-intentioned seas.
Two worlds like day and dark, separated by sometimes raging,ill-intentioned pleas.
“Death to the West!” “Blow the Arab bastards to hell!” Doesn’t everyone feel this way?
All Arab countries are surely the same! And don’t all in the West hate all Muslims today?

In one land, the morning sun rises. The evening moon graces the sky in the other.
The Lady of Liberty opens her eyes. The eyes begin closing of the Majestic Ageless Mother.

Actions by States have killed innocents en masse. Actions by Groups have done the same, nothing other.
The Lady of Liberty opens her eyes. The eyes begin closing of the Majestic Ageless Mother.
“Death to the West!” “Blow the Arab bastards to hell!” Doesn’t everyone feel this way?
All Arab countries are surely the same! And don’t all in the West hate all Muslims today?

In one land, the morning sun rises. The evening moon graces the sky in the other.
The Lady of Liberty opens her eyes. The eyes begin closing of the Majestic Ageless Mother.

Two worlds so far apart, separated for miles by sometimes raging,ill-intentioned seas.
Two worlds like day and dark, separated by sometimes raging,ill-intentioned pleas.
“Death to the West!” “Blow the Arab bastards to hell!” Doesn’t everyone feel this way?
All Arab countries are surely the same! And don’t all in the West hate all Muslims today?

In one land, the morning sun rises. The evening moon graces the sky in the other.
The Lady of Liberty opens her eyes. The eyes begin closing of the Majestic Ageless Mother.
I caught her eyes as they were closing, at the moment before her mind started dozing.
I saw tears in them both when she shook as she cried, and that’s when I started asking her, “Why?”
“You’ve taken my sons, my daughters and lovers; imprisoned us all in one group with The Others!”
Lady looked at the ground, and silence hovered between Lady and the Majestic Mother.

Two worlds so far apart, separated for miles by sometimes raging,ill-intentioned seas.
Two worlds like day and dark, separated by sometimes raging,ill-intentioned pleas.
“Death to the West!” “Blow the Arab bastards to hell!” Doesn’t everyone feel this way?
All Arab countries are surely the same! And don’t all in the West hate all Muslims today?

Lady’s eyes were clouded with rage when she turned toward Mother, the old aging Sage.
No longer a jewel in Lady’s eyes, Mother was evil; to be despised!
“Cruel, wretched woman, don’t you know what you’ve done? You blew up MY daughters! You blew up MY sons!”
“You arrogant fool, what makes you say that? That was none of my doing!Where are your facts?
You’ve taken my sons, my daughters and lovers; imprisoned us all in one group with The Others!”
Lady looked at the ground, and silence hovered between Lady and the Majestic Mother.

Still clouded with rage, glaring sharp as a knife she screamed, “You’re the cause of all of this strife!
You killed her husband. You murdered his wife!”
“You arrogant fool, again I say! That was none of my doing; took no part in that day!
You keep taking my sons, my daughters, my lovers; throwing us all in one group with The Others!”
Lady slumped to the ground, and silence hovered between Lady and the Majestic Mother.

Two worlds so far apart, separated for miles by sometimes raging,ill-intentioned seas.
Two worlds like day and dark, separated by sometimes raging, ill-intentioned pleas.
“Death to the West!” “Blow the Arab bastards to hell!” Doesn’t everyone feel this way?
All Arab countries are surely the same! And don’t all in the West hate all Muslims today?

“What did I do?” cried Lady in grief. “My heart hurts so. It’s beyond belief. I hate you so much; Hope your lives are just brief!”
“If you want death for me, then I’ll bring it to you! The whole world will fear the red, white and blue!
I’ll rain bombs and destruction all over your world! I’ll turn you into a frightened girl!”
Mother plead, “Bombs won’t make your pain disappear. They kill innocent people, make them live in fear!”
Lady screamed, “Fear is one thing you’ve brought to my door. I cannot live in fear anymore!
“I don’t want you to fear me. I don’t want you to kill. When these words reach your heart, I’ll be your friend still.
“Lady, you cannot go on this way with an unquenchable urge to make us all pay.
You keep blaming my sons, my daughters, my lovers; hating us all in a group with The Others!”

Mother knelt to the ground, and silence hovered between Lady and the Majestic Mother.
Two worlds, unknowingly not so far apart, can be separated by calm and friendly seas.
Two worlds experiencing day and dark, united by soft speaking, kind pleas.
“Would you be my friend?” “Can I help you with that?” Why can’t we feel this way?
Surely Arab people feel the same. And don’t we in the West want peace today?

(By: Queen Susan, ruler of the Monkey Planet, Sept. 2009)

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Guest author Susan Cain was born in Memphis, TN. She was studying operatic voice in college, but became disillusioned with majoring in education & French, and dropped out when she discovered the world of blues musicians. She sang blues on weekends, while pursuing a day job in accounting. She writes, “I was working my way up the corporate ladder when I contracted meningitis in 12/1991. After a 30 day coma, I awoke deaf & with an impaired sense of balance. I concentrated all of my attention on my daughter, until I became obsessed with politics right before the Iraq war began.”

September 11, 2001 by wallyg.

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I never understood what it was like to feel disbelief until 9/11. For weeks I felt like I was watching a continuing Hollywood disaster movie unfold every time I turned on the television. It had to be a movie. The events happening around me were completely out of my control. This movie tormented me, making me feel a sense of helplessness that I could hardly bear. It made me clamp an American flag on my car window so that I felt united with the people in my country. We were all so comforted by this national unity that we let our politicians have a free hand to lead us with fear.

I felt like I was the only person in the Bible Belt that was listening to the muffled voices telling us not to invade Iraq. I had no control over that, but that was when I started asking myself “Where did the hate come from that gave birth to the extremism behind 9/11?”

I had started watching a lot of PBS programming to follow issues that our mainstream media seemed to be ignoring. One evening, PBS advertised a program. Part of its title was “Where Did the Hate Come From.” I thought my question was about to be answered. I’ll admit, the program did a great job of explaining things, but how “in-depth” can a 2-6 hour program be? Since watching that one program, I’ve been searching for more answers as more questions have arisen.

I finally became discouraged with blocked websites while using public access computers at the library. During the last week of August 2008, I got my own laptop, hooked up to the internet, and a world beyond my dreams opened up to me. I located a long-lost friend who insisted I join Facebook as an easy way to stay in daily contact with her. After stumbling along in the dark on Facebook for a couple of months, I began meeting people in the Arab world that I had been learning about. I have developed a few special friendships with some of these people that feel as deep as if they were in my real life. We have earned each others’ trust. We have discussed politics and religion very deeply and without arguments.

The friends that I have made from Egypt are especially dear. They are foremost in knowing that one cannot judge the citizens in a country by the actions of its government. They were the Arabs most willing to talk to me when Bush was our president. They were the Arabs that I did not have to prove that I was a “good guy” to before they would open up to me.

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